Re: The Choice

Posted by Neeraja on 12-21-2007 in Marriage vs. Cohabitation

There has yet to be any set rules pertaining to cohabitation- I remember reading from the Law Society a few years ago that although it has been attempted, since 2002, there has been very nominal significance in creating a set structure-perhaps that is why cohabitation may seem appealing, because there are no true restrictions, as opposed to "being wed." Simultaneously, in a legal outlook, I only see cohabitation as adverse. Taking into account the difficulties that would exist in joint loans and pensions..even considering what would happen post-breakup, it just seems that this yield more complications than anything else. In the case of a break-up, extrication of property; there would be no proof of ownership, maintenance of costs, division of expenses..etc. I feel like such agreements exist because of a couples inability to figure it out on their own. Of course, if you consider what is bringing the two individuals together, regardless of the title "marriage" or "cohabitation," I guess what should only matter is the fact that the two are in love..

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In response to: The Choice

Maybe I have a fear of commitment, but what does marriage really say about a couple? That we can spend fricktons of money on one day and then get some tax breaks? Why can't we all be like Johnny Depp, living with his unmarried wife (who he still loves) in pretty lavish villa?